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Open Family Adoption - Birth Mother Services

Contact Southern California open adoption attorney Tim Blied at (800) 678-6811 for detailed information about your placement options if you're a pregnant woman or teen interested in finding a loving, caring home for your unborn child. In the open adoption process Link to Practice Area, you can begin the process of selecting the right family to parent your child, and you can arrange to maintain contact with the adoptive family following the birth and placement of your child on the terms you're most comfortable with.

To see whether any of our current featured prospective adoptive parents might be right for your child adoption situation, see our Adoptive Family Profiles Link to Practice Area. If you would like us to use our national network of adoption resources to find the right adoptive family for you, describe your ideal adoptive family Link to Selecting Practice Area for us and we'll start looking immediately.

We provide all open adoption services on a nationwide basis and free of charge to birth mothers.

Adoption - An Overview

Adoption is a way of creating a legal parent-child relationship. Through adoption, a parent other than the birth parent becomes legally responsible for the child’s physical, material and emotional well-being. Adoption is becoming more common as a positive way to form a family. If you are interested in adopting a child, contact an adoption attorney in your area. Adoption attorneys are well-versed in your state’s adoption laws and can answer your questions about adoption.

Types of Adoption

There are many types of adoption. The most common types include:

Domestic adoption: adoptions that take place in the United States.
International or interstate adoption: adoptions by Americans of non-American children from another country. These adoptions can be the most complex, as adoptive parents will have to comply with the legal requirements of not just the child's birth country, but also of the US government and their state of residence before the adoption can be completed.
Stepparent adoption: the most common type of adoption in which an adult married to the biological or adoptive parent of the child adopts the child to create a legal parent-child relationship.
Open adoption: generally means the birth parent(s) and the adoptive parents meet and contractually agree to the degree of contact between the birth parents and adoptive parents and child. This can include anything from a mere exchange of contact information to visitation by the birth parents.
Closed adoption: traditional form of adoption in which the adoptive parents do not meet with the birth parent(s) and no identifying or other contact information is exchanged, although medical histories may be made available.
Adult adoption: the adoption of an adult 18 years or older. More common in a foster family relationship where the child may not have been available to adopt until after his or her 18th birthday. Adult adoptions are easier procedurally to complete than child adoptions, with shorter waiting periods and less state requirements (such as home studies). The biological parents are not required to consent to the adoption.

Who May Adopt

Generally, anyone over 18 years of age who is capable of supporting a child is eligible to adopt. This includes single, divorced and married people; people from various economic, religious and cultural backgrounds; gay, lesbian and transgendered people; and people who already have children.

That being said, there are a number of restrictions that can placed on who may adopt depending on where you live, the type of adoption you choose, and whether you choose to use an agency. To successfully adopt a child, you will be required to meet the requirements set out by the state where you plan to adopt, by the agency (if you use one), and/or by the birth parent. Some states do not permit adoption by non-residents. Agencies can decline to adopt to people over 50. Birth parents may not want a single parent to adopt their child. Even after you meet these requirements, the court still must approve the adoption.

Agency vs. Independent Adoption

Individuals and families seeking to adopt a child domestically can choose to go through a state, public or private agency or work on their own to expand their families. Each has its own set of advantages and disadvantages that you should explore before making your decision.

State agencies - every state has its own agency for adopting children. These children are usually older and have been removed from their homes because of abuse or neglect. They also may have spent time in the foster care system.
Private agencies - these agencies can be for-profit or non-profit in nature and are regulated by the state. Non-profit agencies usually have a specific focus, like religion. For-profit agencies generally are more expensive to use because they do not receive donations or other forms of funding. Agencies can have long wait lists for adoption and may restrict you to registering with only one agency. Agencies also can set their own criteria for adoption and may choose not to work with single or divorced parents or people over or under a certain age limit, for example.
Independent adoption/direct placement - more newborns are placed through independent adoption than any other kind. This type of adoption provides the birth parent control over whom adopts their child and allows them varying degrees of involvement in the process. Independent adoptions also provide adoptive parents with more options, as they are not limited by the criteria imposed by agencies. Not all states permit independent adoptions.

Perhaps the biggest difference between using an agency or independent adoption is the timing of the birth parents' consent of the adoption. In an agency adoption, the birth parents relinquish their rights to the agency. By the time the child is placed in the adoptive home, all of their birth parents' rights have been terminated. In independent adoptions, the adoptive parents must work with the birth parents to secure consent to the adoption and termination of the parental rights, which may not happen until after the child has been born and placed with the adoptive family.

Home Studies

Most states require that a social worker prepare a "home study" prior to approving the adoption. The social worker will investigate criminal history, ask the parents to complete medical examinations, visit the home to make sure it is equipped for a new child, require adoptive parent training and counseling and review the parents' finances to make sure they can financially handle a new member of the family. Adoptive families are responsible for the costs of the home studies.

Conclusion

Laws governing adoption vary from state to state. Adoption attorneys understand complex adoption laws and can explain the rights and responsibilities associated with adoption. If you decide to use an adoption agency as well, your attorney can review the agency contract for validity and fairness. In short, the attorney will advocate for you at every stage in the adoption process, from initial inquiries to post-placement. Contact an experienced adoption attorney in your area today to discuss your options for adoption.

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