Dear Birth Mother,

Hi There!

Thank you for reading this letter about us! We appreciate you for taking the time to allow the baby that you carry to grow inside you and that you are considering adoption for him or her. You have made a selfless decision in allowing them to keep their life. What a gift life is. Thank you! We can only imagine how difficult it is to adopt a family to raise your child for its lifetime, but we know that your decision is for your child’s best interest. We admire your courage and your tender heart.

We look forward to meeting you, but until then here’s some info about us. We met five years ago and have been married for three years. When Ginger first met Jeff, his extremely kind heart and selfless attitude was what attracted Ginger to him. When Jeff first met Ginger, her love and compassion for others was what attracted Jeff to her. These qualities that attracted us to each other will be the same qualities used to raise our child by being extremely kind and gracious towards them, by being selfless in putting their needs first, and by being loving and compassionate as they grow into a healthy person.  

Ginger is a fun loving and compassionate person who has travelled to over 10 different countries doing humanitarian work, working with orphans, and working with different artists. She loves British humour, theatre arts, and the outdoors.  Ginger loves being a positive influence in people’s lives and helping them grow in their relationship with God.

Jeff is a hard working guy who loves to take care of his family. He has a great sense of humour and loves to be silly. He has a heart for people and their needs. He loves watching people grow in their relationship with God as he leads a small group at his church.

When we were dating we talked about adoption as a way of starting and adding to our family. It became very clear to us after having a miscarriage and not being able to get pregnant that we should start our family through adoption. We are very excited about this! Plus, Ginger’s mom is adopted.

When we become blessed to have a child in our home, the love that we share for each other will be poured out on this child. We also love to laugh and be silly so there would be much laughter in our home. Yes, the child will have the best education, a safe and positive environment, encouragement in discovering their gifts, talents, and unique personality, but more than that we hope to instill in them a confidence and maturity that will enable them to persevere through life’s challenges.

Ginger’s parents live very near to them and Jeff’s parents live a few cities north. We spend Holidays with both of our families and love them dearly. When we told them that we were adopting they all were so very excited for us and can’t wait to have another grandchild in the family to spoil. We spend quite a bit of time with our families. Whether it’s having dinner together, going to the theatre, or celebrating birthdays, we just love to get together.

Ginger and Jeff were both raised in Christian homes and this is how we will raise our child as well. We are both very involved with our church and have a great community of friends that we see often. We are both lay pastors where we volunteer in helping our pastor care for our church community.

As adoptive parents we would understand your desire to stay in touch with the child through photos, e-mail updates, and possible visits during the infant years. We are open to discussing a relationship that’s best for all of us.

Thank you for taking the time to read about us.
God’s Blessings to You,
Ginger and Jeff

If you have further questions, or would like to meet us please contact our attorney, Tim Blied of Schmiesing, Blied, Stoddart, & Mackey at 1-800-678-6811

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