Dear Birth Mother,

Dear Birthparents:

As you face one of the most important decisions in your lives, we wish you all the very best and hope that you will consider granting us the honor of providing a home and new family for your child.  We’re really excited about the possibility of becoming parents, and we promise to provide him/her with a loving, wonderful and stable home!

We can also promise you that we’ll love your baby unconditionally, and that we’ll encourage him/her through both the good times and the bad.  We always make your baby our first priority, sacrificing whatever’s needed in order to provide him/her with as many opportunities in life as possible.  No matter how busy our lives get, Pam will always find time to serve on the school PTA (like her Mom did when she was little), and Chad can’t wait to become our child’s softball/baseball coach (like his Dad was for him). 

We both understand and appreciate the benefits that a great education and home life can provide.  As a result, we bought a home just down the street from one of the finest elementary schools in our county, located in a very safe neighborhood with lots of families and kids.  As a couple, we’re financially secure and full of life and energy.  Together, we enjoy serving as volunteer ushers for the South Coast Repertory Theater, spending time with our extended family and playing with our cat, “Bubu.”   As individuals, we have different careers and interests.  Chad runs his own business.  For fun, he loves to camp and fish.  Pam develops and manages children’s music programs for a living, and, in her off-time, she enjoys reading, swimming, and singing in our church choir. 

We both also love to have fun, and we can promise your child a home full of laughter and warmth.  Always the first to go outside and play with our nephews in the snow or gather in the kitchen to make chocolate chip cookies, both of us can be described as “big kids.”  At holiday family gatherings, Chad’s the first to leave the dinner table, so he can play with our nephews and their new toys.  Pam still nurtures the friendships and memories she made during her many years as a camp counselor and teaching swimming instructor.  Whether you watch Chad playing with the many dogs he encounters during his workday or observe Pam interacting with young student musicians, it’s obvious that we both share a large capacity to love and nurture those around us.  We are both excitable, encouraging and positive.  In addition, we share a strong belief in God, and we attend church on a weekly basis. 

Beyond what we can personally contribute to your baby, we can provide an extremely strong support circle of family and friends as well.  By joining our extended family, your child will be getting not only a devoted couple as parents, but he/she will also become a member of our whole, entire family circle.  We all gather regularly for Sunday dinners, each other’s birthdays, holidays and special occasions, and we believe in the importance of establishing and maintaining family traditions.  Chad’s mother and brother live in the area, and they’re anxious to meet and care for their new family member.  Chad’s grandmother makes regular visits here from her home in Northern California as well.  In addition, we get together with Pam’s immediate family as often as possible though they live outside of the immediate area.  Her mother and stepfather have a home in Tucson, and her sister and brother-in-law live in Michigan.  Their two young boys can’t wait to make new memories with their new cousin!  To top it off, our favorite couple lives close by in Ontario, and their baby Brooke will give our child an instant new friend when he/she joins our family. 

Although we feel we have much to offer your baby right now, we are also looking forward to the opportunity of being molded by him/her.  We may not be perfect, but you can count on us to give 110% to the care and upbringing of your child.  We hope that you will help us fulfill our dream of bringing a child into our family, and that we can help to fulfill your dream of being assured that your child will be well cared-for and loved.  We’re ready to love your child as our own.

We appreciate your taking the time to read this letter and hope that you will be interested in contacting our adoption attorney, Timothy Blied at (800) 678-6811, so we may get to know one another better and explore our possible next steps together.

Sincerely,

Chad and Pam Blaine

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